December 9, 2012
Dear Mr. Weening,
My husband and I purchased your lifetime advocate plan
for our son last January. We were sick and tired of not seeing our grand
children at Christmas time and decided to seek legal help. Our son is a
very quiet man that just doesn't speak up for himself so he always gives
into his ex girl friends demands.
After speaking with you in January we followed your
advice and filed for a court hearing to modify the visitation schedule.
They went to mediation but just as you suspected she would not
agree to increased visitation. The ended up going before the judge in
early March and the court increased the visitation schedule as my son
had requested. He followed your parenting plan exactly as written. She
also has to provide pick up and drops which was not a part of the
This Christmas was a dream come true for all of us. We
had the kids for 2 full weeks including Christmas day. My son could have
never done this without your help. We are all truly grateful. Your
counsel was really amazing.
Don, Rebecca and Seth Wittingham
November 29, 2012
Dear Mr. Weening,
I bought your survival guide last June and all I can
say is I wish I would have bought it sooner. Great information. It
November 16, 2012
Your plan really worked good for me. I didn't take the
deal her lawyer was offering and went before the Judge. It was just like
you said it would be. The Judges order was almost half of what her
lawyer was asking. She also allowed me to pay the day care directly to
center. My custody hearing in scheduled for next month. I will send you
an e-mail how it turns out. I am feeling really good about my case now!
Thanks for all your help.
October 21, 2012
Dear Attorney Weening-
This is Marques Hall from Brooklyn. I just got back
from court and here is what happened. I get to see my son 3 days every
week until next Summer then I get them every other week. I also get 1
week at Christmas and Easter vacation every other year. What an
improvement. Better than the 1 weekend a month I had. My ex is not happy
but the judge warned her that she needed to perform the order.
I really can't tell you how great your help was. I
could have never done this by myself. I will tell the world about your
August 4, 2012
My name is Juliet Reeves and I purchased your lifetime
plan for my son Nelson this past March. He was having terrible problems
with his ex girlfriend not allowing him to see his daughter. He was so
distraught at the prospect of losing her forever that he had all but
When we spoke with you in April about the case you
really delivered. We went to court on June 1st and the Judge really
jumped on her for not allowing Nelson to even see the child.
The court awarded him every Thursday thru Sunday; 3
weeks in the summer and 1/2 of all holidays. His child support is
$278.00 per month and she has to pay her own attorney fees. Much lower
than we expected. He also ordered that Nelson gets the Baby for 2 weeks
(In addition to the regular summer visitation schedule) beginning
immediately due to her refusal to allow visitation.
I really don't know how to thank you. God Bless you
for the work you are doing for Fathers.
Ft. Worth, TX.
May 8, 2012
Thank you for all the great information. I was headed
for certain disaster until I read you book. I really had no idea how the
child support system worked. Your book saved me a fortune. I only wished
I could say the same for useless attorney I hired and who did absolutely
nothing. I will be in touch soon.
Robert J. Escobar
Los Angeles, CA.
March 2, 2012
Dear Fathers/Mike Weening,
Your recent assistance with my child support case
(Illinois) was very beneficial. Support was finally lowered to a
reasonable amount and even part of my support arrears was reduced. I can
finally afford to eat again. Thanks for everything. I will recommend to
anyone in need. will also be upgrading to the lifetime plan to modify my
current parenting plan.
February 9, 2012
Well our nightmare ride through the twilight zone has
ended. We finally got custody of my husbands 10 year old son Jacob.
After 3 attorneys, 7 hearings, 3 custody evaluations, two guardian ad
litems and $22,000 in attorney fees it ended favourably. I can only say
I wished I would have found your site sooner. The advise and direction
you provided were exactly what was needed. Out of all the attorneys (3)
reports, expert witnesses, custody evaluators, mediators you were the
only source of real assistance. I will contact you again soon to discuss
some post judgment questions and concerns.
Jerry and Lisa Fredricks
January 18, 2012
Dear Mr. Weening,
I had my hearing this past Friday and I must say that
all of the issues were very fairly resolved. It didn't look that way in
the beginning when I first bought your survival guide but after
following your advice things really improved. I think I got just as good
of a deal on my own as I would have with an attorney. Thanks for all of
your help and guidance.
October 22, 2011
Hello Mr. Weening,
I would like to update you on my trial. The Judge
terminated the spousal support just as you stated. He said she has the
ability to work and didn't make a good faith effort to find employment.
He also lowered my child support from $1125.00 @ month to $816.00.
He told her that she needs to get a job by May 1, 2011
or he will impute an even larger income to her.
The Judge also followed the GAL recommendation so my
time visitation time share was increased to 6 weeks in the summer
instead of 4 and she must now pay 1/2 the air fare.
All in all it was a good day in court. Your help was
instrumental in accomplishing my goal. It turned out just like you said
I am sending a copy of the order for you to review.
Thanks for all your help. I couldn't have done this
with out you.
July 11, 2011
This is Adam Mendenhall. I just wanted to say thanks
for all your help. I went to four attorneys who all refused to help me
with my case. When I read your guide I knew you would there was hope for
me. I barrowed the money from my mom for the Advocate Plan and it turned
out to be a great decision.
As it turned out I get my daughter 3 days a week and
th Judge did allow the first right of refusal to do the day care. The
other attorneys said the court wouldn't do it. My child support is
$256.00 a month. I can live with that. Much better than $480.00 that I
was previously paying to the Washington Attorney General. I have
referred you to a friend that also needs you help big time. He will be
calling you. His name is Martin Thomas.
June 23, 2011
Dear Fathers Rights,
This is Brandon Miller from Georgia. (Atlanta) I
wanted to write and tell you how pleased I was with your advice. I
bought the lifetime plan last year and it has really helped my
situation. you may remember that the mother refused to let me see my
kids even after the court made orders. Her and her boyfriend kept
threatening me in person an text. Finally, they began coming to my work
and that's when I contacted you. You instructed me to file for a
protective order on the mother and file for personal harassment order on
the boyfriend. Before I could file there was an incident where the
mother and her boyfriend attacked me while I was holding out 4 year
daughter. I called 911 and both went to jail. They are facing assault
charges and child endangerment. I went to court yesterday and got
custody of both kids. The mother now has a restraining order on her and
has supervised visits every Saturday at the Civic Center here in
Atlanta. The Judge ordered her to enter an anger management class. The
boyfriend is still in jail because he had some other warrants. I got the
PO on him as a well. He cannot come with 100 yards, no contact for any
reason and the Judge also restrained him from being anywhere near my
kids. I am so glad I found you. I don't have the money for an attorney
and your help was really great. I couldn't have done this without you.
God Bless you.
Brandon G. Miller-Lifetime member
May 3, 2011
Dear Mr. Weening,
You were right. Not only right but it sounded like the
Judge had read your information. It was just as you said it would be.
The Judge changed the temporary orders as follows; he vacated the
temporary restraining order and ordered 50/50 joint legal/physical
custody. All pick up/drops off's are to be done at school. He stated
that he wanted us to submit a written proposal to the other party on the
exact custody time share schedule. He then looked at my soon to be ex an
said if there is no agreement he will set an order and she may not like
In short, I am very pleased with the new orders. I
could not have done this without your assistance. Your help was right
Thanks for everything.
Daytona Beach, FL.
March 19, 2011
Hello Mr. Weening,
I Just wanted to let you know how things turned out in
court on my to court dates. Last month the court approved the new GAL
report and my visitation was increased by 1 more overnight per week and
1 more week in the summer. The court also ordered the ex to provide 1/2
the transportation. (something she refused to do in the past) I
also get first right of refusal to provide day care if the ex is NOT
available. She can't just take him to Grandma's house like before.
Two weeks later I went to the child support hearing.
The Judge really scolded her and her attorney for not having the
financial declaration. The court imputed an income to her of
$2,500 a month. The Judge told her that she was underemployed in that
she had the ability to work full time and chose not to. When he
calculated the support is was $213.00 a month less because of the
imputed income and my increased time share. My total support is now
$287.00 a month.
So, I made great gains in both visitation and child
support and all thanks to you. I would have never guessed this was
available to me. I am very regretful I didn't know about you at the time
of my divorce two years ago. You have a great service.
February 23, 2011
Dear Attorney Weening:
I am sorry I didn't write to you sooner. My mother
purchased your survival guide for me last November. After reading the
information I upgraded to your lifetime plan. I wasn't sure if I even
had a case but you convinced me to re-file and go back to court to
modify my visitation time share. You probably don't remember but my ex's
family are millionaires and paid for her high powered attorney. Anyway,
I filled in December and went to court in January. The Judge appointed a
guardian ad litem named Sally Bremerton. She was was really great and
listened to everything I had to say. She also talked to my children and
my parents. She filed her recommendation and the Judge followed
everything she said. I now have 3 days week, 1/2 the summer 1 week on ,
one week off and half of all holidays. The Judge also didn't give her
Anyway I can't thank you enough for what you did.
Everything turned out just like you said it would.
Thank you , thank you, thank you.
December 6, 2010
Dear Fathers Rights,
It's over! Finally, after a 4 years struggle we
finally got the rulings we were after. Your guidance was key to my
success. The Fathers Rights Survival was very helpful. I will send a
copy to you of the final orders. I really appreciate your help. I hope
other Fathers will realize the importance of your service.
November 17, 2010
Hi Mr. Weening,
Just wanted to drop you a quick note expressing how
satisfied we (Karen and I) are with your service. We were so lucky to
have found you. Our case had been a nightmare and you really helped
straighten out the mess. I have told a number of friends about your
service and I am sure they will be contacting you.
Thanks so much.
Tampa Bay, Florida
October 29, 2010
Dear Mike Weening,
Just to let you know , I went to court on October 18
and the judge dismissed my ex girlfriends petition for a protective
order and request for supervised visits and sole custody. He told her
that he simply did not believe her story of abuse. He actually told her
in court that she could be jailed for making false reports to the
police. He also warned her that if she does not abide by the current
orders he will consider changing physical custody.
The funny part of this is I remember what you said
about how quickly an ex will make a fair agreement when she has been
scolded by the judge. That is exactly what happened. We went into the
court hallway and signed an agreement that allows 13 nights a month and
alternating weeks in the summer. Child Support stayed the same at $305
Thanks for all your help sir. I have already
recommended you to many of my friends.
Tampa Bay, FL.
Dear Mr. Weening:
The nightmare is finally over! After two long bitter
years my divorce is finally finished. Things certainly turned out better
than were originally projected by my former attorney. Acquiring
your services was to say the least, invaluable.
When I started with your Advocate Plan I was under
temporary orders to pay $1,435.00 in child support (2 kids) and $450.00
in Alimony. I only had every other weekend visitation or what is know in
New Jersey as a standard possession order.
I had trial last Tuesday and the final orders are:
$994.00 in child support; $300.00 in alimony (for only 3 years) and I
was awarded joint custody with 3 days a week visitation and half of all
holidays alternating on even/odd basis, and 2 months each summer.
A dramatic improvement over the temporary orders!
I want to thank you and your staff especially Carla
for all the favorable scheduling and the tremendous work you are doing
for Father's like me. I highly recommend your services to everyone. It
turned out exactly like you said it would.
God bless you,
August 6, 2010
Jeff went to court this morning and it was
wonderful. Judge Langston really got angry with his ex and her attorney
for not allowing Jeff contact with the kids for 3 months. He told her
attorney that he would remember that when it came time to award attorney
fees. He immediately gave Jeff the remaining 3 weeks of this summer and
gave him 3 days out of 7 every week; 1/2 of all holidays and 6 weeks in
the summer. Also she has to provide 1/2 of all transportation. The Judge
also denied her request for alimony saying that her college education
was sufficient and that she chose not to use it. He also awarded her
$426 a month in child support which was less than half of what her
attorney said it would be. In the end it was a very long day but very
productive. Needless to say we are very happy with the outcome.
This is the hard part for me. I hope I
don't start crying before I finish. I want to tell you that what you did
for Jeff was absolutely amazing. He was so discouraged and did not know what
to do. All three of his kids are in our living room right now because of
you. I am just the new wife and stepmom and I would not have had a clue
how to take care of this problem until I found your website. Your
information and service were exactly like you said it was on your website
and I pray that other men having divorce, child support, custody and
visitation problems will allow you to help them. Thank you and God bless
Philadelphia, PA .
July 22, 2010
Dear Fathers Rights,
I bought your survival guide in May and boy what an
eye opener. I have read it several times and plan on upgrading to the
lifetime advocate plan soon. All I can say is I wished my dumb lawyer
would have told me the truth in the beginning. I learned more for $63
bucks than I did wasting $4000 on a worthless attorney. Thanks for all
the great information. I hope to be talking with you soon.
June 23, 2010
Dear Mr. Weening,
I bought your lifetime advocate Plan for
my grandson Jacob last December 2009. He was totally distraught and
without hope fearing that he would never see his kids again. The mother
is very vindictive and bi polar person who started brainwashing the
kids. She is addicted to both prescription and illegal drugs but we
could never get the court to take action. We tried everything but it was
like they didn't believe us. The Judge would not order drug testing. He
wouldn't even listen to anything Jacob had to say. Our whole family was
so frustrated with the legal system until we found your website. I
really didn't know whether you would be able to help him or not but I
took a chance and became an Advocate plan member. After many e-mail's and consultations with
you we were finally able to get the papers filed and a hearing date.
Everything was done just as you taught us.
When we got to court that morning we were
so scared. I was afraid Jacob would not be able to speak if the Judge
asked him questions. The Judge didn't waste any time he looked at
the drug test results and that was it! He looked at her and said "Miss
Coulter you have a big drug problem and are in no condition to be caring
for your children." He then awarded Jacob full custody. It turns
out that the mothers drug test showed more than just prescription drugs;
it also showed cocaine. My son did not know this until, the day of
court. The Judge was really great. He ordered her to attend a recognized
drug rehab program for at least 6 months and limited her visits to
every Saturday from 3 to 5 at her mothers house who must supervise all
her visits. She must also submit to random drug testing. She also was
allowed midweek phone calls on Tuesday and Thursday. A review hearing is
scheduled for December 15.
Mr. Weening what you did for my grandson
was nothing short of amazing. It wasn't just the legal information but
your patience with Jacob that made this all happen. Our family will
never forget what you have done. God Bless you for the work you are
doing for fathers.
Ida Graziano- Bakersfield, CA.
March 12, 2010
My name is Brendan Cole and I purchased
the survival guide 4 months ago. I was having big problems with the
Texas attorney general for back child support. I am also on workers
compensation due to an injury I received at work in December. They
suspended my drivers license last January and took my tax return this
year but refused to change my current child support. The amount of the
back support was wrong since I have always been garnished from day 1.
The Attorney general would not help me at all just like you stated in
your guide. They were totally working for my ex.
After reading your guide I was able
to take the recommended steps and file for a hearing to prove I had
paid the back support and modify my child support.
I had court last Wednesday and the Judge
dismissed $18,000.00 (I still owe $6,300.00) in arrears and reduced my
current support from $1534.00 a month to $427.00. I was ordered to pay
$150.00 a month on the back support. They also assigned my ex an income
of $2000.00 a month. The Judge told her that she had gone long enough and
should be working by now. She was a Rehabilitation therapist that used to
make $40,000.00 a year. She last worked in 2008 and can still work but
is re-married to a wealthy doctor so she just doesn't want to work.
Anyway, I wanted you to know how much your
book helped me. I am now planning to go back to court and increase my
visitation. I wished I had found this information 3 years ago.
Thanks for helping Fathers like me.
Brendan Cole-Houston TX
February 22, 2010
Dear Mr. Weening,
I am an Advocate Plan Lifetime member. I
had court yesterday and I wanted to drop you a note and let you know how
it turned out:
Child Support was $1,423.00; NOW $634.00;
Daycare was cut in half. Judge found she wasn't working during hours of
Custody is now JOINT; no longer SOLE
Visitation is: Friday to Monday, 1st, 3rd
and 5th weekends; 1/2 of all holiday/out of school periods; First right
of refusal to provide day care of my twin boys if the mother will be
gone more than 3 hours.
Her boyfriend has been restrained from
picking up and dropping off.
In Short, YOU ARE MY HERO! I will declare
your services to the world!
Very Happy in Texas!
October 30, 2009
Thank you for all your help and support!
I wanted to send you a brief note to let
you know that on Wednesday, October 28th
at approximately 1:00 PM I won temporary
custody of my middle (16 ½ year old) son. Wooo-Hooo! He moves to NJ on
My Ex is still demanding a trial and the Judge set a trial date of
2010. So it’s not over yet but today we feel good!
You may recall when last I wrote (on 9/25)
that I was continuing the process of preparing for and attending the
numerous court hearings regarding my 16 ½ Year Old Son (Billy) and his
desire to live with me here in New Jersey. He was living with my ex in
upstate New York. My ex, acting as her own attorney, caused many
hearings to be held that were continually delayed – At the time I
thought it was becoming a total waste of my time and money. I am so
happy I kept pressing on!
First priority… Getting my son acclimated
to New Jersey life, school, sports, friends, etc…
I am also moving immediately on to the
child support modification phase and preparations for the trial. Wish me
Your Father’s Rights Survival Guide set
the foundation for this victory and your willingness to respond very
quickly to my questions with clarity, sound advice and steadfast
encouragement certainly helped me through this very difficult and
demanding process. You helped me begin with the end in mind and never
waiver when the odds seemed insurmountable.
I can’t thank you enough!
Dear Mr. Weening,
name is Alan McDonald. You probably don't remember me but I purchased
your lifetime plan back in June of 2003. I was the guy that had the same
birth date as you and my son had the same birth date as your son.
Anyway, I had a very hard case with a vindictive wife and was in court
14 times in 6 years. I spoke with you maybe 40 times and your advice was
always right on.
I am writing to tell you that
my youngest son is now 18 and graduated so I am FREE FREE FREE at last.
(Hurray!!!!) During my family law case which began in 1998 I spent over
$72,000.00 in bad attorneys, bad custody evaluators, law guardians,
marriage and family therapist and was sinking big time until I found
you. You really turned my case around and everything you told me
came true. Your plan was the best money I ever spent. I have a very good
relationship now with my two sons and that would not have happened
without your help. If there is anything I can do to help the Fathers
Rights movement just let me know. I have time and money again for the
first time in a long time thanks to you and want to help other men in
need. Please put this letter in your story section and it's ok if you
want to give my email address.
Ft. Worth, TX
(formerly Buffalo, New York) email@example.com
Thank you so much for your guidance
and support. The Ex wife showed up to a gun fight with a stick, I had a
.44 mag. I read your manual and right away signed up for the Advocate
plan. The Ex and the court (female judge) knew right away that I was
ready to rock. The proceeding lasted more than 3.5 hours. Many times
the court would try to make a ruling in favor of my Ex and I would bring
up the guidelines and laws that pertained to the ruling and the judge
would quickly back peddle. The Ex was shaking in her boots. I believe
right now that she has no faith in the court system. Best of all,
following your advise was easy and gave me the confidence to confront
the system. Several of the points I learned from you, I even caught the
judge off guard.
During the proceedings I was able to uncover $11,000 worth of
income the Ex was not claiming and the court accepted as income. This
helps to reduce my obligations.
I can't thank you enough. There is justice but you just have to
know how to apply it.
is a deal. We made a deal that if you really helped me I would
write a note telling the world about you and your service.
I bought your Advocate Plan
in September of 2006. After reading the Fathers Rights guide I
knew there was something very special about all of this. I still don't
know why nobody told me these things before. It was one of the
best things I have ever read. I later upgraded to the lifetime
plan in June 2007. Dude, you did more for me than the three attorney's
(Bozo's) I hired. They didn't do squat for me! I mean I wasted
over $25,000 grand on those clowns. Anyway I got my two boys now
50/50 thanks to you and I'm loving it. Your help meant everything bro.
It wouldn't be like this without you! You da man! And if anybody wants
to e-mail me about you no problem.
Los Angeles, CA.
Dear Attorney Weening,
to drop you a note and let you know that the Fathers Rights Survival
Guide was excellent and exactly what I needed. I still can't figure out
why my attorney never told me these things. I have already managed to
get a better visitation order and have a court hearing on child support
coming up in April. Again thank you for your guide. I have already told
all my friends and co-workers about you here in the plant.
Dear Mr. Weening,
I want to
thank for what you have done for son! He was so depressed about his
situation and felt there was no longer any hope for him to see his children.
This situation has been very difficult for our whole family. When I saw your
website something told me that this is what my son (Jason) needed. I
purchased the Fathers rights Survival Guide and sent it to my son in Ft
About 3 days later he called me
and was so excited about what you had written. He read the guide over and
over again. Then he called me and asked if I could help him upgrade to the
Advocate Plan Lifetime. (He really doesn't have much money.) My husband and
I gave him the money to upgrade. After another week he called again and was
so excited about what you had told him. For the first time in years he was
filled with hope that he would finally be able to correct a bad agreement he
had mistakenly signed during divorce proceedings 6 years ago.
The next day after the consultation he went to the court house
and did exactly as you had instructed. He filed for a hearing to
modify his visitation and custody orders and was given a court date of
November 11, 2007. To make a long story short his ex wife would not agree to
allow unsupervised visits. No reason, just didn't want it! He had paid
his child support on time every month and she still wouldn't allow over
hearing, the Judge questioned the mother as to why she would not allow
overnights. He asked her to give him a good reason why Jason should not have
the 1st, 3rd and 5th weekends of every month, 2 to 4 weeks in the
summer and 1/2 of all holidays. She froze and didn't say anything. Then the
judge gave my son the entire Christmas vacation period since he had not had
any reasonable visitation in some time. My son was estatic!
In January of 2008 My son again returned to court to lower his
child support. You had reviewed his current order that were established
5years ago. You had noticed that he was paying over guideline due to his
default on the divorce. The court lowered his support by to $965.00 from
$1476.00. Over $500.00 a month less than he had been paying.
My son owes all his success to you. You were very strong with
him when he was at his weakest moment. More than anything you were very
truthful and what you said would happen did!
Thank You so much!
Donald and Alice Hines
PS. It's also nice for us to be able to see our Grand children
I purchased your book on 4/14/07 and was simply
amazed by what I read. Three days later I purchased your Advocate Plan Basic
and had my consultation on 5/2/07. I was again overwhelmed by your counsel
and advice. Last week I went to court on the move-away issue and the judge
told her she could leave if she wanted but the kids had to stay here. Later
that afternoon she called me and said that she had no choice and had to
leave. The following day she dropped the children off at my house and left
for Phoenix. Your analysis of my case and what the court would do was exact.
It turned out just like you said. I am still amazed and telling everyone
Thank you so much.
First falls, WS
to your guide and advice, my court date last Tuesday (03-06-07) went in
my favor-the first time in 4 years! Your information and everything you
said was so "right on". They are actually going to enforce visitation,
approved my abatement request, and appointed a special friend of the
court to set a fair support amount. The bailiff and another attorney
congratulated me coming down from the defendants chair. They wanted
$3500 or 90 days in jail. They settled for $1500. Even though I am $7000
behind, I have been paying $100 per week so the FOC (friend of the
court) looked stupid in front of the judge when they read the payment
schedule. I was on fire and the FOC was agreeing with every point I
made. Sorry I didn't write sooner.